I'm a firm believer of fate and this is one of those stories that
reflect that belief. My husband and I have been on the website
several times looking at photos and reading stories of Pugs
available for adoption, but always felt "maybe we aren't ready yet"
to pursue adoption.
Jeff and I have not been able to have children so Pugsley and Kemo
had been all the family we needed. Pugsley, our oldest, was diagnose
with nerve damage in his spine at the age of 4 and his vet stated
there wasn't anything they could do for him and one day he would be
totally paralyzed. Within the last 3 years of his life, Pugsley
began deteriorating rapidly and became trouble with walking and
unable to control his bodily functions, but that didn't stop him. He
had a big heart and loved his family dearly so he always gave it his
all until the end. At the age of 12, Pugsley woke up one morning
totally paralyzed and began early signs of kidney failure. He and I
both knew what we were faced with and It was the hardest thing I
ever had to do to make the decision to have him put to sleep. I
wished we could have done more for him, but I look back and feel at
peace knowing he had a wonderful life. Kemo, our youngest, is now 9
years old and has been the KING of our house for the past 3+ years
after Pugsley's death.
We had been talking about getting a puppy for some time now, but my
only concern with the puppy talk was the fact that Kemo was a 100%
momma's boy and the KING of the house. I was always worried that
taking that away from him could be overwhelming so we decided
against it. Instead, we decided to sign up for fostering and see how
Kemo would react to sharing his home, but even still had doubts on
doing that for Kemo's sake.
I was looking at my email one evening and saw that Jenny and Claire,
pug mix, needed a foster home. The "girls" were approximately 18
months old and litter mates. They had been separated for a few
months and one wasn't doing that well without the other one. I
immediately was drawn to the situation and responded right away. I
told my husband what I had done and he thought I had lost my mind
based on conversation/cocerns we had had. Regardless, he agreed we
would give it a whirl.
During the time, we were back and fourth with the Rescue on whether
or not the sisters would be kept together or adopted separate. The
day we went to pick them up, the decision was made to keep them
together to see how they responded. The moment we got them home, my
husband and I fell in love. Kemo wasn't all that thrilled initially,
but was a good hostess!! As the days went by, the more attached we
became...seeing their individual personalities unfold was an awesome
experience. Pugsley and Kemo both were 100% momma's boys and Jeff
was always craving having that bond with a pug too. Claire
immediately became attached to my husband, she would flicker those
gorgeous eyes and tilt her head every time she heard his voice....my
husband melted. Jenny on the other hand quickly became a momma's
girl and Kemo was okay with sharing his mom. It didn't take us long
at all to realize that Jenny and Claire DEFIANTLY needed to stay
together. They constantly were side by side and was devastated with
not knowing where the other one was. Now that they are settle in,
they are getting comfortable with being themselves and knowing they
will always be together as long and they are with us. We had to
immediately start potty 101 and they graduated quickly. They are
very well mannered and mind well. We have even taken several trips
to see the grandparents and they love'm too. Claire is a couch
potato when my husband is watching TV and he's looking forward to
having a buddy to watch football with him (ha!) I guess Jenny and I
will hang out watching chick flicks in the bedroom and doing our
toes and Kemo will be looking at us like...yuck with all the girlie
stuff (ha). Kemo is loving the "girls" too and even breaks down and
gives them kisses occasionally. We are having a great time and
embrace every day we spend together. They have enjoyed our trips to
the park and rides to visit family. I don't think they got out much
before so they think they are living the HIGH LIFE now! Jeff and I
are brining them to the Pugtober Fest, so I'm hoping everyone can
see them there. We will be the parents glowing and grinning from ear
to ear. I'm hoping Kemo will be able to come too, but he's developed
breathing problems and severe allergies over the past few years and
the heat is hard on him. If the weather is comfortable, he'll be
coming too. If not, he'll get to spend the day with grandpa, which
means just as much to him:0)
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